5 Things All Brides Wish They know Before Planning their Wedding
Planning a Wedding can be a pain, especially when both of you are working all the time and you don’t have much help from friends or either side of the family. Here are some nasty facts that I wish I had known before I start to plan my wedding.
Fights Can Happen
One moment you are kissing and his arms are around you all the time, he is whispering sweet nothings. The next moment, both of you are having screaming fits. The whole situation escalate when neither one of you are talking to each other for days. This is normal. Tension can run high when comes to wedding planning. It is important to talk about the crucial aspect of the wedding like budget, the cost of the honeymoon and the number of guest before planning.
Your Budget Blown Sky High
For various reasons -- season, location, timing, procrastination, etc. -- certain vendors/services/other wedding details can end up costing a lot more than you expected. There are many ways to save on the little stuff like DIY your own invitation cards for example. It is personal, sincere and cost saving!
Everything in Mind is Blown out Proportion
You are one cool cat so cool that nothing faze you. Suddenly, you are panicking over everything! You are emotional, you are tired and you want to stop worrying BUT this is your wedding and you want it to be PERFECT. Three words for you – Let It Go. Keep chanting that in your mind and your wedding will be perfect.
Promises Best Made in Writing
Be wary of wedding vendors who played with your erratically emotions and promise to give you the sun, the moon and the stars at your wedding. Always have a best pal around, preferably someone cool headed during vendor negotiation.
A Final Moment to Breath Before You start
The moment you start planning your wedding, you will not stop until the whole wedding plus honeymoon are over. So take a moment, heck, take a day to relax and breathe before plunging into never-ending appointments, phone calls, emails and decisions.